The holidays offer a routine as well. Routines give us structure and comfort, and we sometimes feel out of sorts when our routine gets interrupted. Despite its hecticness we can still find a bit of solace in the everyday routines we've created. We don't put up our decorations until advent starts and we don't take them down until Epiphany. I try to get my shopping done before the week before Christmas but there always seems to be some last minute thing to rush out for. There's our Christmas eve service at the church and I'm usually working at the hospital over the Christmas break.
Christmas day has its routines, as well. We end up going over to my parents' house for Christmas dinner. The same dinner has been made for as long as I remember: turkey with stuffing, and boiled vegetables, usually consisting of potatoes, turnips, carrots, and cabbage. I remember, one year, my mother wanted to change it up a bit and asked up to prepare one part of the meal and we would get together and serve dinner. While the meal was good, afterwards she felt that she missed part of her Christmas routine. So, things went back to "normal" for the next year.
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